Saying Goodbye to MAO
- Feb 8, 2025
- 3 min read
For the past few months, I have gone back and forth—will I compete again, or will I not? After much reflection, I have finally come to a decision. And here’s what I’ve realized: If it’s not a definite yes, then it’s a no.
I have been incredibly privileged to be overwhelmed with opportunities, and my schedule is packed with pursuits that I am deeply passionate about. I am currently a graduate researcher at the University of South Florida, the president of the Social Work Society, in the midst of my master’s program, and actively engaged in my field placement. Each of these experiences aligns with my dreams and aspirations—to make a difference in the lives of others and to grow as a social worker in pursuit of social justice.
The Miss America Organization (MAO) has given me invaluable experiences. However, I believe I have gained all that this organization can offer me. More importantly, I would never want to take a title away from another young woman who dreams of being Miss Florida and ultimately Miss America—because that was never my dream.
Competing Takes an Emotional Toll
The reality is that competing is emotionally draining—not just for me, but for my support system as well. The anxiety, constant comparisons, and self-criticism have taken their toll. I’ve found myself breaking down in front of the mirror, fixating on all the ways I perceive myself as ‘less than’ others. That’s not the mindset I want to keep nurturing.
The Organization No Longer Aligns with My Values
While I have been advocating for the women in this organization who are too afraid to speak out against policy inequities for fear of persecution, I cannot support policies that contradict everything I believe in. The contractual limitations placed on titleholders—prohibiting them from advocating for political issues, even on their personal accounts—go against the very core of who I am.
As a social worker and an advocate, I cannot sign a contract that restricts my voice. The very mission of MAO is to “empower women to lead,” and I believe that should apply to all aspects of a woman’s life. That’s why I began the advocacy effort #LetHerLead, because women should be free to use their voices without fear of retribution. However, I now fear that by staying within the organization, I will waste my time pursuing a title while being unsupported in my efforts and personal passions.
No opportunity that requires me to sacrifice my identity and integrity is worth having.
To the Candidates Who Have Distanced Themselves
I do not blame the candidates who have chosen to distance themselves from me. For many of them, this is more than just a scholarship or a platform—it is a lifelong dream. I understand their fear of losing opportunities by being associated with me or my outspoken beliefs. While it is disheartening, I respect their choices and wish them nothing but success.
Gratitude for an Incredible Journey
Despite my departure, I remain deeply grateful to MAO, its leaders, and the mentors who have guided me along the way. My life changed in 2022 when I was crowned Miss Tampa, and I will always cherish the experiences that followed. This organization has served me well, and I have been honored to serve within it.
Moving forward, I know my role is better suited to supporting and mentoring other candidates whenever given the opportunity. That has always been my favorite part of the organization, and it will continue to be my focus.
To everyone who has been a part of my journey—thank you. Your support has meant the world to me, and I look forward to making you proud in other areas of my life.
My Goals for the Future
I hope to pursue political advocacy or a political role that allows me to implement people-first, informed policy, applying the knowledge I have gained from serving communities at the ground level within social work.
I am seeking experience in roles such as Legislative Aide, Policy Advisor, Community Liaison, or Public Affairs Officer to build a strong foundation for future public service. My long-term goal is to run for Hillsborough County School Board or County Commissioner, with the ultimate aspiration of becoming a State Representative.
If you would like to mentor or support me on this audacious pursuit, please let me know! As I complete my MSW in Summer 2026, I plan to further my education with a Ph.D. in Public Health Leadership and Policy, all while continuing to serve in a macro social work role.




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